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Here I'm at Hyatt, Santa Rosa…quiet time at the courtyard with my companion-computer and a cup of hot coffee! Trying to write again..

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G'morning Mrs Chia

I remember you mentioning that you attended concerts. When a concert ends, you would stand up with others clapping and asking for more? Often, it may play on a few more minutes. Eventually it had to stop. You would walk out feeling that you probably would not see such a great performance again. Yet you don't feel sad but elated and inspired by the great music you had the chance to hear. What a stirring crescendo and what a wonderful experience!

This is the only way I hope to describe how you might feel moving forward when you miss Mr Chia's presence badly. His life was a great performance you clapped and cheered for more at the end. Mr Chia played on a little longer and in truth, it was a marvelous crescendo to his life. It was a tremendous concert he had played in front of his beloved wife. And the devoted wife will never forget his fingers and cadenzas and the deep feelings that he gave to his symphony. He was a maestro of life. How wonderful it was for the wife to have been at his concert. Be inspired, feel gratitude not grief Mrs Chia. You had witnessed one of the beautiful lives of your time. In your heart conversation to Mr Chia, it will always be "dearest love, soul mate and friend, the door of my heart will forever be open to you, no matter what you ever do, even if you die…"

Even in death, you let him go.. Such selfless love is so freeing for you.. Liberating the one who must leave you and freeing yourself from all sadness and grief…

It's a brand new day, new year.  Take a step at a time. Breathe and enjoy. Hugss.

We gathered again @ the Chois' home for another sumptuous meal.

The host's cheery hospitality warms our hearts; the prepared dishes – our taste-buds' delight!

Here we're making effort to spend time together. We pledge we'll kind/gracious to one another & make no room for regrets.  Indeed tomorrow is not promised!